The undeniable truth that everyone who has ever had a bad date can tell you is that sometimes the spark just is not there, no matter how much you want it to be. A personal connection is not something that you can manufacture and if it isn\u2019t there at all on the first date, the chances of it appearing later on are limited. Rather than blaming anyone, or trying to invent a feeling that isn\u2019t really there, sometimes calling time and parting the ways is the most grown-up reaction. It is easy to get drawn into believing that you need to conform to a certain stereotype, and go into a date with that in mind. This strategy is doomed to fail.<\/p>\n
One of the most frequently used pieces of advice anyone will ever hear is \u201cbe yourself\u201d. It has been known to send individuals into a furious rage at the mere use of the first syllable. People do not like clich\u00e9, but the fact of the matter is that sometimes clich\u00e9s become clich\u00e9s because they are true. And you would be well advised to always try to be yourself, for one very good reason if nothing else \u2013 eventually, if you put on an act, that act will come to pieces. At that point it is a lot more difficult to regain your dignity and someone else\u2019s trust than if you were honest to begin with.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t make anyone like you if there is no connection there \u2013 but if someone is going to like you, it\u2019s better that they like you for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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