Whatever method of dating you attempt, there is always the chance that the early days will be marked more by failure than by success. It is hard not to be disheartened by this, and there is little that anyone can say to make it feel less painful. As much as these pieces of advice sound like fraudulent clich\u00e9, the truth is that very often it\u2019s not anything that\u2019s wrong with you, that sometimes the timing is wrong, and that as long as you stay true to yourself there will be people who find you attractive. As tempting as it may be to wallow in self-deprecation, keeping faith has to be the strategy for you.<\/p>\n
If a date goes wrong and you don\u2019t hit it off, it is not because you yourself are fundamentally flawed. For two people to meet and get along brilliantly right away is incredibly rare. We all put up shields \u2013 otherwise we would be running around telling everybody what we thought of them, and we would be locked up or beaten up. It takes time. The fact is that sometimes you have to trust that your luck will pick up. If you don\u2019t accept that you need to wait, you can end up convincing yourself that someone utterly unsuited to you is your soulmate \u2013 and creating a very problematic situation.<\/p>\n
Accept that these things take time, and you will be much of the way towards getting it right. Don\u2019t try to force it and don\u2019t give up. Just show your best side at all times and it will happen for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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